As we go through life, we can either lead a life for others, full of compassion, or consumed by our own ego, there really is no middle ground. We have the skills to think, see, and understand, but applying them takes skill.
First, we must be willing to acknowledge we are not the highest level of authority. We must be willing to submit to one another’s authority. Submission is a vital role in relationship growth. To form a truly intimate relationship, a couple must submit their egos and relinquish the right to try to control or be changed by the other. Couples who constantly fight about who’s right and who’s wrong are the perfect example of individuals unwilling to submit and holding onto their egos.
Secondly, when we willingly surrender our power we are strengthening our relationships. The surrender builds trust, self-esteem, and self-confidence. It builds the unit of family.
Lastly, we must be willing to sacrifice, or our actions will be selfish. Selfishness will never lead to a healthy marriage or family. However, when we desire to sacrifice our ego the mentality of ‘I give you everything’ fades and one’s true importance isn’t in being the provider but in being an engaged, loving family member. We gain perspective when we sacrifice. That is why it always involves giving up something of great value.
During this THMCI Thought Forum participants detail roles, purpose, strengths, and weaknesses of the union in order to secure a strong vision.
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